3 Partner Yoga Poses to Try with Your Friends & Family
In this post, I’ll break down three partner yoga poses you can try with your friends and family this holiday week!
Partner yoga is so fun because you get to share the experience with someone else. I am definitely that person at a family party or friendsgiving talking about the benefits of yoga and/or inviting everyone to come to class. 🙂 I remember at one family party, my brother’s girlfriend and I tried a partner yoga pose (it was one where she got into high plank on the floor facing one way and I stacked my plank on top of hers facing the other way) in the living room just for fun!
The great thing is you don’t need to be an advanced yogi to try these. Alright, let’s go!
Headstand x Dancer’s Pose
This pose connects headstand and dancer’s pose. Before you start, check out my?headstand tutorial here.
So step one, one of you get into headstand (for more advanced yogis, you can try it with handstand or one-legged wheel pose). The partner that will do dancer’s pose should capture both of your ankles to stabilize both of you.
Once you both feel stable with your foundation, your partner will start to remove one hand away and take his/her palm and capture the inside arch of her foot or ankle. Make sure this partner’s shoulder opens outward and the eye of her elbow faces out to protect her shoulder.
For you in headstand, keep your breath steady and core engaged. For you in dancer’s, kick your foot back into your palm to lift your leg higher. Find one steady point that isn’t moving to focus your gaze on. Hold the pose as long as you’d like and?slowly release.
Balance out right and left and take turns being the headstand partner!
Handstand x Legs up the Wall Pose
This is a really fun way to practice your handstand with some help! Have one partner get into legs up the wall. This partner gets to chill for a bit! Stand in front of your partner about one leg’s distance but facing away. Then go into forward fold, on an inhale lift your spine halfway and then plant your palms shoulder width distance apart. Try to have your wrist creases parallel in one line. Lift your right leg as if you were going into standing splits, then connect that foot to your partner’s. Then lift your left leg to connect your other foot. Now you’re in handstand!
Your hands will be pretty far forward at first, so hug your lower core in and wrap your front ribs in, then walk your hands back slowly closer to your partner. As you do this, keep pressing your feet into your partner’s to help you get your hips stacked over your shoulders.
The best part? You get to jump off! Take turns being the handstand partner.
Locust or Bow x Legs up the Wall Pose
This one is really fun and requires some bravery and lots of trust and communication! One of you go into legs up the wall. Have your partner stand in front of you then interlace your hands with hers. Bend your knees then place your feet in a V position on her hips. The trick here is your toes should be right around her hip bones for a stable foundation. Grip your partner’s hips with your toes.
Bend your knees a lot and stabilize your hips.?Ask your partner to lean her weight into your feet. Use your hands to draw her closer to parallel to the ground. At this point, she is balancing on top of your feet.
Then here’s the trick, once your hips are stable, imagine yourself at the leg press machine and press out through your legs. For the flying partner, engage your spine and core as you balance and be fearless here! The next important trick for you is to use your toes. Imagine you are playing piano on their hips with your toes; this will really help you balance!
Once you both feel confident and stable, start to release your hands.
Then you can?play?with resting your arms on the ground and the flying partner can go into floor bow pose.
Then gently release your partner and take turns being the flyer!
As you can see, we had so much fun playing with these poses! Hope you do too and let me know in the comments below!
My partner is MariAngel?and we are both wearing Monday Active?via?Bandier.?Photos by Alex Jay.
??Bianca
3 Tips for When You Only Have 5 Minutes to Practice Yoga
In this post, I’ll be sharing 3 practices that are useful for days when you only have five minutes to do yoga.
I got up early Monday morning to take a C2 class at CorePower Yoga before work. The room was heated to 98 degrees and it felt so good because if you know me, you know I’m always cold. Brrr. I started moving through the first poses of class and all I could think of was wow, I am so so tight. Then, I tried to think back to the last time I made it to a yoga class and realized that it had been a week. During the week, I usually practice on my own at home or the gym but nothing beats going into a yoga studio and leaving all distractions at the door. If you’ve been practicing yoga, you’ll notice that your body feels so much better with regular practice. I’ve noticed that I’m a lot less reactive and generally more relaxed when I can make it to my mat more consistently. That’s when I thought to myself, I really need to set aside time to practice yoga every single day, even for just 5 minutes.
So here are my three tips!
Practice Your Breath
Here’s a breathing exercise that will help you relax.
Close your eyes.
Inhale through your nose to the slow count of four ? 1-2-3-4.
Breathe in as much air as you can and once you reach 4, hold your breath for 4 counts ??1-2-3-4.
Exhale through your nose to the slow count of four ? 4-3-2-1.
Repeat this 3 to 4 times or until you feel more calm and relaxed.
Practice Your Flow
The physical part of your practice does not need to be 60 minutes long for it to be a complete one. Maybe you decide to put your phone away for 15 minutes, roll out your mat, and just move to your breath. I think a little bit each day is better than nothing! Maybe your yoga for the day is just taking some shoulder and neck rolls while sitting at your desk at work. That is perfect!
This week, I was feeling a lot of tension in my shoulders so it felt good to stretch out that area. Here’s a 3 minute flow that encourages shoulder mobility. Think of areas where you feel the most tension or tightness and practice some poses that target that area.
Practice Your Gratitude
I’ve had to constantly go back to gratitude this week. How about you? It’s easy to get overwhelmed, especially during this time of year with the holidays coming up. When you start to notice feelings of discontentment, anxiety, or any other feeling that is not serving you, start to think of things you are thankful for. Start with the most basic things and keep going from there. Gratitude will reframe your thoughts and your day.
I hope these three tips were helpful and thank you for reading!
Share with me?one thing you are grateful for in the comments below.
??Bianca
Slow Down to go Fast
We live in a results-driven society. We are busier than ever these days. The world we live in places a high value on achievement.?At first it seems like the formula is to work harder towards building the life and future we truly want. In this post, I want to share some things I am learning. I want to share how taking it slow and cultivating an inner stillness can open the door to our best life yet.?
Time
It’s interesting to think about our perspective?on time. Have you considered it? Whether it’s realizing how old we are going to turn when our next birthday comes around, to wondering where 2016 went (the first week of November has come upon us), sometimes it’s easy to feel like time is on fast-forward. Because of this, I think setting an intention of slowing down is so important.
The thing is (and those of you who are more type A will probably resonate with this), when we slow down, sometimes we think, well if I don’t work at this right now, it won’t get done. It won’t happen.
I’m starting to see that this isn’t exactly the case.?
Here’s what I’m learning-
Slow down to go fast…?I’m starting to see that time is on my side. Time is on your side too. I think this applies to pretty much everything! Maybe you are looking for a new job. Or maybe you just started dating someone. Perhaps you are working towards certain fitness goals. Wherever you are right now,?I think taking your time is the best thing you can do for you.
But it’s not just taking it slow. It’s realizing that the things at work in your life are happening for you even while you rest. While you sleep. While you aren’t putting in the hard work at the gym, work, school, etc.
Why is that?
Live Life with an Open Hand
I think the reason why taking your time and getting “rest” are worth it because if it’s for you, it will happen. This is something I have observed to be true time and time again. You will never have to force anything that is meant for you.?This is true in all areas of life- career opportunities, relationships, friendships, basically everything.
When you live life knowing your intrinsic worth and how loved you are, the game changes. You stop operating from a place of lack and move into a place of provision.
For me,?I am able to know my worth and understand my value through my relationship with Jesus. It’s a sweet journey to be on just knowing that it’s all a gift. It’s that ultimate rest from striving, proving myself, and being on the proverbial hamster wheel.?This is what helps me live life with an open hand.?
This leads me to the next thing-
Be Thankful for What you Have While Working for What you Want
We have a natural?desire to be fruitful and progress in life. I think it is so important to have goals and pursue them with our best abilities. Lately, I’ve been reflecting on what it means to be thankful for what I have now, while working for what I want. It is really easy to get so focused on the destination.?I’m learning that it’s about the moments in between.
It’s easy to spot this in our own lives. Have you ever found yourself thinking, “when ? ? ? ? ? ? ?? ?happens, then I’ll finally be happy.” I do sometimes. I counter these thoughts by?remembering the days that I prayed for what I have now. ?
When I was a sophomore in college, my friend’s biology class had a field trip at Little Corona?Beach?in Corona del Mar, California. The field trip was centered around observing all the living things in the tide pools during low tide. Once we got to Little Corona, I fell in love. I thought to myself, “wow, I’d love to live here.” That day, I saw my very first sea star and tons of purple sea urchins and teal sea anemones.
I always had CDM in the back of my mind since then. I finished college and started my career. After three years of working, an opportunity opened up to move to CDM.?My dream of living in CDM came true. It wasn’t a linear path and I didn’t know it would happen. I say prayer of gratitude every time I come home.
I look back to that memory because it’s a reminder of how life can surprise you. Sometimes you’ll get exactly what you wished for, or sometimes life gives you something better.?
What are some blessings you are standing in today? Does slowing down to go fast resonate with you?
Thank you for reading!
??Bianca
Yoga Flow: Expressing Your Creativity Through Movement
I’d like to share with you a yoga sequence that?will help you feel light and free. This yoga flow will encourage you to express your creativity through movement. Give it a try and share your thoughts with me!
Featured in this video is?the?Gemstones yoga mat by Free Thirty Three Yoga.
??Bianca
Golden Hour Yoga: Three Minutes to a More Peaceful You
There’s something so magical about golden hour.
The way the sky glows in Corona Del Mar right after sunset is one of my favorite sights.
After work, I often like to go to the beach and watch the sunset. When I hear the waves and feel the salty air on my skin, my day is instantly uplifted.
All the cares of this world seem to fade away and I am left feeling at peace.
The ocean grounds me.?It reminds me of the beauty and mystery of life.
I want to share with you a three minute yoga flow that will help you reset your body and uplift your mood.
Featured in this video is?the stunning?Gemstones yoga mat by Free Thirty Three Yoga.
??Bianca
I Took a Stand-up Paddle Board Yoga Class and this Happened
I took a stand-up paddle board yoga class and I learned about my fears.?
I try to spend most of my Saturday mornings outside. I usually start off my weekend with a beach run in Corona Del Mar or a hike somewhere in Laguna Beach. This morning,?@supbliss?was hosting a stand-up paddle board (SUP) yoga class in Newport Beach led by Kylan Fischer (@yoga_ky). I was really excited to do a full yoga class in the water. I’ve gone paddleboarding since and did a few poses but the last time I took a SUP yoga class was during a yoga retreat in Aruba with Rachel Brathen (@yoga_girl). You can see more from that?retreat at?#BiancainAruba!
I can’t seem to sleep in on Saturdays because my body is used to the early wake up call from the week. I read in bed for a while then got up. I walked to my car and had to smile to myself because of the Southern California weather in October. It feels like summer still.
The water was so calm and I was excited to get out there. We paddled out and found a spot by some boats and anchored down.
It felt so good to be out in the sun.
Kylan started off class telling us that stand-up paddle board yoga is pretty different from doing yoga on land.
Kylan led us through the integration poses. I thought to myself, wow even?downward facing dog feels different. Your core is activated the entire time while you’re on the paddle board.
My next thought was, don’t fall in the water.?
So I started off class pretty cautious and taking things slow and controlled. My main focus was not to fall in. Then I started to learn more about myself?as we moved through the poses. I’ve always known I had perfectionist tendencies but being out in the water brought it out more. I wanted to stay dry?on the board. I also know I am a risk-taker but the risks I take are usually calculated.
I couldn’t help but smile and laugh during the class because it felt amazing going back to the basics and feeling like a beginner again.
There’s just something about trying something new.
I love the playfulness and freedom that comes with it.
Then we tried some arm balances and inversions. It was so much fun! The board takes it to a whole new level.
And then, as I was watching the other two flow on their boards, I fell in the water! What? I know! I don’t even think I was doing a yoga pose but it happened.
I started to ask Kylan about falling. She has an incredible yoga practice and her inversions are amazing. Kylan mentioned she’s become really good at falling and knows her exit strategy.
That’s when I realized-?I hold myself back in my inversion practice because I don’t want to fall. I’m afraid of falling.?It was such a big moment for me because I am currently working on handstand and forearm stand in my practice. But there’s a lot of fear tied up with those poses for me: fear that I’ll fall or that I’ll get injured. Sometimes, there’s even a fear that I’ll actually get the pose.
Why do we let fear run our lives?
What are we keeping ourselves from doing because of fear? Whether it is yoga or anything else in life, it’s easy to hold ourselves back.
Today I realized I’m going to have to fall. A lot. And I’m going to have to try and it won’t be perfect right away.
Who knew that a stand-up paddle board yoga class would show me some areas in my life where I’m playing small and allowing fear and perfectionism to take over.
What are you fearful of?
Why?
What would happen if?we just went for it and didn’t worry about falling?
??Bianca
5 Tips to Pursuing your Passion while Working in the Corporate World
If you clicked on this, there’s a good chance you have a dream you are working towards. You know what lights you up from within. You know all about those early mornings, late nights, and weekends “working” on this passion. I say “working” because it hardly feels like work. You just love it. There’s one thing though. You also have a career. You know, the one you went to school for. The one that pays the bills and then some. The one you’ve invested in for years and actually enjoy when taken as a whole. In this post, I’ll share with you 5 tips to pursuing your passion as a corporate professional.
I’m figuring things out as I go, but it’s so much fun discovering and living in the flow. So let’s go!
1. Vision First
During my yoga teacher training in 2014, Lacey Calvert?led a little meditation exercise for our group. She had us sit in a comfortable position, close our eyes, and visualize the future. Where does your mind wander off to? What you find yourself dreaming about?
Try this meditation exercise in a quiet and comfortable place. In this exercise-
? Picture yourself six months, a year, three, or five years down the line. Pick one point of time in the future.
??Where are you?
? What are you doing?
? Who are you with??
??How do you feel?
Visualization is such a powerful tool. When you have the vision in mind, you can work backwards and figure out what you need to do now to set yourself up.
Keep your vision or your “why” ever-present. It will?serve as an anchor through the times of uncertainty and doubt. Your vision is your ultimate motivation.
The vision is clear but the process is open-ended.
2.?Nail your Non-Negotiables
Everyone is blessed with 24 hours in a day. I wish we had more sometimes. Because of that, we have to use our time wisely. Given this, it is so key to nail down your non-negotiables. Your non-negotiables are your primary commitments.?It will take some reflection to assess what is really important to you.
Here are some of mine. I’d love to hear yours in the comments below!
? Do physical exercise (yoga, circuit training, cardio, weight lifting, etc.) six days a week when possible.?
? Attend Rock Harbor?mid-week life group and Sunday service.?
? Stay connected with family and friends.?
Your non-negotiables will serve as another anchor as you navigate your schedule. There will definitely be busier times and you might have to take time away from these primary commitments. I have noticed though,?that maintaining your core priorities is important to?living a balanced life. When you take too much time away from these things, it is easy to feel depleted.
3. Maximize your Power Hour
Time is seriously so valuable. I’m sure your schedule is full and vibrant! And I know you wouldn’t have it any other way. 🙂
I am not necessarily a planner by nature, but I’ve learned to plan better to fit in all my commitments. Here’s a short breakdown of my busiest day of the week– Monday.
6:30 AM to 7:30?Take yoga class at CorePower Yoga
7:45 to 9:00?20?Minute sprints or stairs at Equinox?+ get ready for work + drive to work
9:00 to 11:45?Work?
11:45 to 1:00 PM?Power Hour
1:00 to 6:00 Work
6:00 to 7:00 Change + eat dinner + drive to yoga class
7:00 to 9:00 PM Teach yoga class at?CorePower Yoga?(includes front desk time)
Power Hour is that one hour in the day where you can work on your passion projects. Maybe it’s at lunch time for you like it is for me. You’ll often find me at Whole Foods with my Macbook out. You have to find time to fit it in.
An hour a day is a great place to start. If you do an hour a day, in a week you would have worked 7 hours on your passion project. You can get a lot done in that time! 🙂
4. Connect with your Community
Community makes life sweet. As you pursue your passions while working your professional career, make sure you are staying connected with your family, friends, and other loved ones. They are your biggest supporters and the people you want to celebrate your successes with.?The best part about all of this is you will continue to meet amazing people along your journey! When you start doing things you love, you’ll cross paths with people who also have that zest for life. When you pursue your passions, you vibrate at a higher level and will attract the same energy.
5. Rest, Relax, Repeat
Someone once said-
If you get tired, learn how to rest, not quit.
Relaxation, self-care, rest, and fun are so necessary. Schedule it.?Spend time in nature. Watch a sunset.?Take it slow. Breathe. Unplug. Listen to music. Sleep. Go somewhere or do something new.
Take a step back from time to time and zoom out. This is especially helpful when you?experience moments of frustration or discouragement.
When you rest, you will feel ready and energized to take on life again!
Take care of yourself.??
I hope these tips were helpful! I’d love to hear other ways you are able to find balance as you pursue your dreams.
Until next time.
??Bianca
How To Get into Headstand
Yoga with Bianca | Supported?Headstand
Supported headstand is one of the first inversions I learned when I got deeper into my yoga practice. I remember practicing the pose at home and usually by a wall. Then one day, I was in a yoga class and my mat was in the middle of the room. The instructor cued us through the pose by piking up our legs and I found the lift up and held the pose! I was so excited! It wasn’t until I learned to use core stability to pike up did this pose really click for me. In this post, I will show you how to get into headstand in a safe and accessible way.
Just to preface this tutorial, everyone’s body structure is different. Our muscles, joints, and bones are built differently and any injuries will also change the dynamic. If you experience any neck or shoulder injuries, I would refrain from spending time in headstand and opting for other inversions instead.
Here we go!
With any yoga pose you are attempting, you can use the following template to break down the pose:
Breaking Down Supported Headstand- SOUL
S-?Strengthen
Core, Shoulders
O-?Open
Shoulders
U-?Understand Muscle Action
Extension of hamstring muscles and core stabilization
L- Lengthen
Hamstrings
(Source of acronym:?Corepower Yoga?Level II Teacher Training)
Build-up Poses
Yoga Sequence
Before you go into headstand practice, I recommend flowing through sun salutations and a strength series for your core. You can practice the poses and vinyasa flow shown here, which will help warm up your body for this peak posture. You can incorporate the poses below in?your own flow.
Child’s Pose Variation
This is a modification for child’s pose that opens up your triceps. I love starting in child’s pose because it is so grounding. This pose opens up your hips and shoulders. Try bringing your knees to mat distance or wider and bringing your big toes to touch. You can massage your forehead side to side to ease away tension. This is the perfect transition from your busy day into your yoga practice.
?Three-Legged Dog
Ground your palms into the mat in downward facing dog. Focus on pressing your knuckles down into the mat so you alleviate the pressure from your wrists. Stay in downward facing dog for a few breaths. Lift your leg up in space while keeping equal pressure on both palms and squaring your hips in line with one another. Keep breathing here, wrap your front ribs in and hug your belly button to your spine to keep your core engaged.
The tendency is for your hip to open up so you can lift your leg higher. It isn’t so much about how high your leg goes but more so on the position of your hips. This pose is great for working your glutes as well. Hold here for a few breaths then switch legs.
One-Legged Plank
It’s important to have a strong core if you want to invert yourself. Find plank pose. Align your shoulders over your hips and press your weight into your hands and balls of your feet. Micro-bend your elbows to further work your arm muscles and core and avoid hyper-extending through your elbow joints. Form one line of energy from your heels all the way to the top of your head. Broaden through your chest and stay strong. When you feel stable in your plank, you can work on lifting one leg up. Keep your hips stable and squared to your mat and only lift your leg as high as hip height. Hold one side for three to five breaths and then switch.
Chaturanga
Chaturanga is a foundational pose and is the key to unlocking most, if not all, yoga arm balances.?When I started yoga, I remember it took me a few months to be able to bend my elbows back and keep them by my sides (I’m still working on my alignment in this pose too 🙂 ).
Starting from high plank, inhale as you hinge your body forward onto your tippy toes. Keep your core strong and exhale as you lower halfway down by bending your elbows back. Keep your shoulder heads pulled back away from your ears. Avoid lowering down more than halfway as this will put a lot of pressure on your shoulders. Lengthen your tailbone back and keep your glutes in line with the rest of your body. If you feel too much pressure on your shoulders, lower your knees down and you will still get the strength benefits of the pose!
Forearm Plank Pose
Forearm plank is one of my favorite static hold poses because it gets so much done! You can interlace your fingers or have them flat in a number “11” position. Stack your elbows right underneath your shoulders and keep them only shoulder width distance apart. A quick check is to cross your arms and capture your biceps with your hands– this will tell you how wide your base should be.
Use the same tips as plank from above. In this pose, press down through your forearms and work on hugging your shoulder blades together down your back. This will keep your upper body from sinking. Take deep breaths as you hold. Challenge yourself with this pose. Start out by holding your forearm plank for 30 seconds. Then keep upping your time as you go!
Hey, you never know when you’re going to be challenged to a plank contest. 😉 A few years ago, when I worked as an auditor at the Big Four, they flew us out to the East Coast for training.?My training room had people from investment management, banking, and insurance. They asked me to represent investment management in a plank competition as part of our team building activity. The last person standing err planking was a guy who held it for seven minutes! You know I held my own though!
Dolphin Pose and Dolphin Push-ups
From your forearm plank, walk your feet in and find downward facing dog with your lower body. Lift your hips as high as you can and wrap your front ribs in. This is dolphin pose. As you gain flexibility in your hamstrings, you’ll be able to bring your feet closer and closer to your arms. You can hold dolphin for 3 to 5 breaths or more. From here, you can also practice dolphin push-ups.
Start from dolphin pose then exhale as you shift your body over to plank with your shoulders aligned over your elbows, then inhale as you lift your hips high for dolphin. Try 10 reps then rest in child’s pose.
Supported Headstand Pose
Headstand Base: Measuring the Crown of your Head
The crown of your head is the foundation for any headstand. You can find the safest part of your head to balance on by placing your palm on your forehead. Where your middle finger meets the top of your head is the crown of your head. When you try headstand, place the crown of your head gently on the mat.
Headstand Layer 1: Leg Lifts
Interlace your fingers and open your palms up. Rest your forearms on the mat at shoulder width distance. Place the crown of your head on the mat right in front of your open palms. Your palms should be supporting the back of your head. Supported headstand is great because most of the weight will actually be on your forearms (which is why shoulder strength is key).
Once you have the top part of your headstand set up, walk your feet as close in as you can. The higher your hips are, the easier it will be to get into the pose. Start by practicing lifting one leg up at a time while keeping your hips as square as you can. (When you open up your hip, it throws off your center and balance.)
It’s important to use your core and shoulder strength during your leg lifts. It’s best to avoid kicking up into handstand or using momentum because it can cause injury.
When you lift up one leg, try coming onto your tippy toes on your base leg. This will elevate your hips further.
Headstand Layer 2: Practice Pike
I personally think piking up is the safest way to enter into headstand. So once you feel like you are solid with your leg lifts, you can practice piking up!?There’s a low risk of toppling over?because one leg is close to the ground and can catch yourself if you tip over.
The key is pressing your weight through your forearms, activating your shoulders, and engaging your core. Most of your weight should be on your arms. ?
Start by lifting one leg up in space. Keep your hips as square as you can and walk your toes in as close to your torso as possible so you can get your hips above your shoulders. From here, use your glutes to keep lifting your raised leg as high as it can go. When you lift your top leg as high as you can while keeping your hips stable, your bottom leg will start to follow and lift up as well, as you can see in the series of photos above.
Keep breathing through this pose and try it on both sides! Stay persistent. Just remember, yoga is a practice.
Full Supported Headstand
You can also bend your knee on your way up! Find what works best with your body. After you are done playing with headstand, rest in embryo pose (which is child’s pose with your knees together and arms by your sides) for three to five breaths.
Here is a video showing you one way to get in and out of supported headstand. Go layer by layer, take it slow, and be brave! For more advanced variations, you can pike both legs up at the same time and add in fun poses using your legs (eagle, lotus, splits). I am so excited for the headstand breakthrough you will achieve! Please share with me your experience or feedback by?leaving a comment below.
??Bianca
7 Habits of Confident, Successful, and Content People
Confidence | Success | Contentment
These three states of being are universally sought after. If you’ve ever met someone who exudes these and more, you’ll know what I’m talking about. They are magnetic and curious about life. You want to spend time with them because their energy inspires you. They achieve success in any endeavor. In this post, I’ll share 7 habits you’ll find these people engaging in everyday.
How do they do it?
In my opinion, there?is no secret formula to this. While this seems to come naturally to some people, I think everyone can tap into the most?confident, successful, and content versions of themselves.
A year and six months ago, I read a book that truly impacted my life. This book was The Slight Edge?by Jeff Olson. My brother had just read the book and gave it to me during a time in my life where I felt stuck. I felt paralyzed because of life events that were outside of my control. The book set a framework for me and gave me practical things to think and act upon.
Let’s dig deeper.?
The Slight Edge‘s premise is this:
Your philosophy creates your attitude, your actions, your results, [which]?creates your life.
This book made it clear to me that I played an active role in the life I am living.
The people on the upper half of the slight edge curve are the cause of what happens in their lives. They view all the forces that brought them to this point– God, parents, teachers, childhood, circumstances, you name it– with gratitude and appreciation and without blame… The people on the upper curve take full responsibility for all the choices they make in their lives and in their work. ?
You and I have the ability to think, reason, and make small and big choices everyday. These choices, however small they seem, are actually the building blocks?of our lives. You multiply the impact of these choices when you factor in time.
Because of the effect of time on repeated actions, your moments truly count.
So let’s get to it!
7 Habits
The Slight Edge?lists the seven habits below and I’m adding some insights that I’ve observed and experienced. As you read this, you’ll realize that you probably already do these things. These habits are ingrained in us! But something special happens?when you become aware of them and can intentionally practice them as you go. This list applies to any area of life: fitness, relationships, career, you name it- the list stands.
1. Show Up
This is first for a reason. It’s been said that showing up is half the battle. This is where?the rubber hits the road; where our best intentions are tested. Preparation is key here. Make it easier for yourself by setting yourself up for success:
? Big presentation at work the next day? Finalize your talking points the day before and pick out an outfit that makes you look and feel your best!?
? Attempting to get up early to work out? Pack your bag the night before to keep yourself from making excuses. Then once your alarm goes off the next day, visualize the post-workout endorphins you’ll feel and you’ll definitely get out of bed.?
2. Be Consistent
If showing up is where the rubber hits the road, consistency is the fuel in your car on the road trip to your dreams. From what I’ve observed, consistency is the not-so-secret ingredient to success. When you commit to doing the thing day in and day out, the results will speak for itself.?Your talents and skills will develop even more as you put in the hard work. Yup,?even on days you don’t feel particularly motivated to.
? Make a realistic plan and stick to it. Figure out your “why” and you will persevere through anything. Don’t quit.?
? Life happens, so give yourself grace.
3. Have a Positive Outlook
This one is my favorite. Positivity is a muscle. Work it out.?I think positivity starts with gratitude. It requires seeing the good in the midst of the struggle. It is a posture of humility, hope, and openness. Positivity is knowing deep down that things always have a way of working themselves out. Positivity doesn’t mean you’ll be smiling?24/7 and you’ll experience no negative emotions. Your positive attitude is tested best when things aren’t going your way.
? Practice zooming out of the situation at hand and reframing.?
? Learn to reflect before you react.?
4. Be Committed for the Long Haul?
Oh, time. Some things just take time. I’ve always believed that time is neutral. It isn’t good or bad; I think it depends on what you’re doing with that time. Malcolm Gladwell came up with the 10,000 hour rule: the key to success in any endeavor is to put in about 10,000 hours of practice. That’s?a lot of time!
? Patience is everything. Life has a natural ebb and flow. You can’t force or rush things. Sometimes we just have to learn to be still.?
? Break it down to smaller portions of time that you can manage -> x minutes each day, x times every week.?
5. Cultivate a Burning Desire Backed by Faith
Jeff Olson said it best-
A burning desire backed by faith means deeply, passionately wanting to get somewhere and knowing — not hoping, not wishing, but knowing that you’re going to get there.?
You have to want it. You have to believe you can.
6. Be Willing to Pay the Price
Opportunity costs for days. There’s just no getting around this one. Since there aren’t any shortcuts and you have to show up and be consistent over a long period of time, you’re going to end up with choices. This is the most challenging part of the process because you are going to have to say no to good enough so you can say yes to the best.
? Find the balance that works for you. People might not understand your journey. It’s not your job to make them understand or obtain everyone’s approval.?
? Prioritize and make time for what’s truly important. Value relationships.
? Discipline is choosing between what you want now and what you want most. -Craig Groeschel
7. Practice Integrity
There’s nothing more attractive than a person of integrity. Strength of character is absolutely timeless. CS Lewis defined integrity as “doing the right thing even when no one is watching.” No one is perfect and we are all works in progress. Know who you are and be you in every setting you find yourself in. Align your actions with your words.
? Trust your intuition.
? Choose purpose over popularity. -Craig Groeschel
I hope you enjoyed reading about the seven habits of confident, successful and content people through the framework of?The Slight Edge. How do you live out these habits in your own life? I’d love to hear your insights!
??Bianca
How To Get into Splits Pose
Yoga with Bianca |?Splits Pose
The splits is one of my favorite poses! While I practiced this pose years ago in ballet, I lost a lot of that flexibility as the years went by. When I first attempted it again as an adult, my hips were more than a foot above the ground. With intentional stretching?over a period of a few months, I was able to eventually rest my hips on the ground. In this post, I will show you how to get into splits pose with photos and a video.
Just to preface this tutorial, everyone’s body structure is different. Our muscles, joints, and bones are built differently and any injuries will also change the dynamic. Everyone’s splits will look different, but take this tutorial as a foundation.
So let’s get started!
With any yoga pose you are attempting, you can use the following template to break down the pose:
Breaking Down Splits Pose- SOUL
S-?Strengthen
Core
O-?Open
Hips: Outer hips and hip flexors
U-?Understand Muscle Action
Extension of hamstring muscles and core stabilization?to hold you upright
L- Lengthen
Hamstrings and quads
(Source of acronym:?Corepower Yoga?Level II Teacher Training)
Build-up Poses
Forward Fold
Start with your knees shoulder width distance apart or wider.?Bend your knees and let your chest rest over your thighs.?Allow your head to hang heavy and feel the release of tension from your neck and shoulders.?After a few deep breaths in and out through your nose, work on straightening your legs.?It’s totally fine if your fingertips don’t touch the ground, your hamstrings will open up over repeated practice.?For the fullest expression of this pose, place your palms flat on the mat with your fingertips in line with your toes.?Hold the pose for 3 to 10 breaths depending on how much time you have.
Downward Facing Dog
This one deserves a whole post on its own so I’ll break down down dog (had to ;p) in the future but this is a great pose to lengthen your calves, hamstrings, and spine.?You can take organic movements in this pose by “walking” out your dog by bending one knee and the other, nodding your head “yes” and “no”, or taking shoulder dips. Bend your knees slightly to find more length in your spine. Keep your core engaged, palms flat on the mat, shoulders away from ears. Stay here for three to ten breaths.
?Crescent Moon
This is one of my favorite poses and I try to incorporate it in each class I teach. Our hip flexors get shortened everyday because most of us sit all day. Align your hips over your back knee. If you have sensitive knees, you can rest your knee on a block or double roll your mat. Position your front knee at a 45 degree angle so your knee stacks over your ankle to protect your knee joint. Lengthen your spine and keep your core and glutes engaged to feel this pose even more. Hold for 3 to 5 breaths and make sure you do both sides to balance out your body.
Half Splits
From crescent moon, slide your front heel up as far as it takes to straighten your front leg. Keep your hips aligned above your back knee. Flex your front toes towards your face and work on squaring your hips to the front of your space. Feel free to keep a slight bend in your front knee or use blocks underneath each palm to bring the ground closer to you. With every inhale, lift your spine to a half-lift like the second photo and with every exhale fold deeper into your front leg. Keep moving through this flow as many breaths as you have time for to create space in your hamstrings.
Pyramid Pose
This pose is so grounding. Start from Warrior I then straighten your front leg. Lengthen your torso towards the front while keeping?your hips squared then fold over your front leg. Continue to ground your back heel down to your mat to lengthen your calves and hamstrings. Repeat the inhale half-lift, exhale-fold flow similar to half splits above.
Standing Splits
You’ll find that you can invert most?yoga poses and keep the same shape. Standing splits is basically splits but just on your feet! Square your hips to the ground when you lift your top leg up. Point your lifted toes to the mat and press your heel up in space. Picture the inseam of your lifted leg spiraling up to the ceiling. Take a microbend in your standing leg to protect your knee joint. It doesn’t matter how high your leg goes here, you will still experience the benefits of the pose with proper alignment! To make this pose more challenging, walk your fingertips closer to your standing leg or add a balance challenge by holding onto your shins. To ease the pose, use blocks underneath your hands or lower your lifted leg.
Half Pigeon
This by far was one of the most uncomfortable poses for me when I first started doing yoga. Start in a three-legged downward facing dog. Take your right knee towards your right wrist and right toes toward your left wrist. Try to work your shin as parallel to the top of you mat as you can while still keeping your back kneecap on the mat. This alignment will take time and practice. You may find that your shin is angled at a 45 degree angle at first.
Check that your?back foot is angled straight and the tops of your toes press on the mat. Balance your weight equally on both hips. Take deep inhales to send your breath into the tight spaces around your hip. You can stay upright in this pose or come onto your forearms or chest. Hold for 5 to 10 breaths. Your release is three legged down dog and I like to take knee circles to further open up the hip joint.
Splits
Now you’re ready and warmed up to try full splits! I recommend having two blocks within reach when you try this for the first time. Start in half splits (see above) then slide your heel forward until your front leg straightens as much as it can. Point your front kneecap towards the ceiling. Then, slowly slide your back knee in space until you have reached your maximum stretch. Continue to square your hips forward. A test to see if you are doing this right is your back kneecap and back thigh will be facing or resting?onto the mat.
If you have two blocks, place your blocks on either side of your hips and rest your palms on top of each block. Use your tricep and core strength to keep your body lifted against gravity. Work on breathing calmly in this pose. Hold here for 3 to 5 breaths. If there is only a block height of space from yourself and the mat, you can sit on a block and work on steady breaths in and out. This pose will take practice so give yourself a lot of grace! To get out of the pose, press your hands into the mat and?use your core strength to slowly lift your hips off the ground or the block. Be gentle with yourself. As a counter stretch, bring both legs in front of you for seated forward fold and stay for a few breaths.
Bringing it all Together- Yoga Flow
Now let’s see all these poses in action! Remember to breathe and have fun with it! Hope you enjoyed this tutorial and please feel free to comment below with feedback, questions or requests.
??Bianca